March 2012
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291) I hate all the different gender identity...
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290) Amongst my friends, there’s been some...
February 2012
73 posts
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289) I tend to hang around a lot of gaming kinds...
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288) I sometimes wonder if I’ll ever be...
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287) As a kid, I wanted to grow up to be a man....
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286) I'm thinking about seeing a gender therapist....
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285) I've never thought about my gender until...
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285) I've never thought about my gender until...
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284) Why can't I just be a girl?
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283) I hate that I'll never have a body that can...
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282) I wish I didn't want kids, so that way I...
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281) My face is never the same twice. I don’t know...
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Anonymous asked: I'm about to buy my first binder, yet I'm on the fence. I haven't yet come out to my parents, and I wouldn't know how to explain both the package and my empty visa card.
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Anonymous asked: For 279- It's terrifying. I won't bullshit you about that. Every day is a struggle, but it's worth it to really feel like who you are. You're not alone, even when it feels like you are.
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280) It upsets me that people don't take me...
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279) I have long hair and wear clothes from the...
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wennichtanzenwill asked: About binding: If you're only planning to do it a few times you can get away with ace bandages, but keep in mind they might hurt after a while and slip down often. A few friends and I have had Underworks binders for years; we're all different sizes and they have worked wonderfully for all of us. And unlike ace bandages, they smooth down your whole torso so you can wear skin tight shirts...
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Anonymous asked: okay, i need help with binding my chest. i don't know how to do it properly and i keep looking for help but it just confuses me. could you help???
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Anonymous asked: For an SO I quite like 'beloved'.
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278) Even though I’m non-binary, I’m horrible when...
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277) Last night I dreamt one of my teachers spoke...
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Anonymous asked: Hey there, I have a question. What is a word for a genderless significant other, and what is a word for a genderless, um, master/mistress? :)
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Anonymous asked: I happened upon the question regarding my post about "defaulting one's gender." I thought I would clear up the confusion. What I meant by "defaulting your gender" was that you choose a gender that people can "comfortably" mistake you by. For example, if you are genderless then would you rather be mistaken as a woman or man.
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276) Three rolls of bandages, $9.99. One loose...
Only a few more weeks til the opportunity presents itself.
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275) I wish I could be read just as often as male...
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274) I oscillate between being proud of my gender...
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273) I don't care if it makes me look immature. I...
Anonymous asked: [question] What do you think the author of 271 meant by "defaulting your gender"? I don't think I understand.
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272) Ungendered love?
I just started seeing someone, we’re both on the gendered queer side, though we both (for the most part) wear clothing matching our birth assigned binaries and we both allow people to refer to us in he/she, we are also both polyamorus, and actually polyamorus, not just saying it and then getting jealous when the other talks about other partners OH OH OH! And we both have the same disorder. But...
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271) From all this talk of defaulting your gender,...
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270) I can’t figure out what the hell I am. I...
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269) Even with my accepting friends, I feel...
orchestratedmess asked: i just wanted to thank you for this blog, i have a feeling it could be really helpful to me figuring out what i am.
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268) Sometimes I’m afraid that he is only with me...
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267) Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one who's...
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266) How am I supposed to pass as neither gender?
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265) I got a haircut today in an attempt to be...
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264) I want to go on T so I can act like my...
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263) My girlfriend broke up with me because I'm...
damnredlights asked: OMG im so glad i found this tumbr i love it! finally people who can relate
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262) I read that British scientists are coming...
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261) I sometimes doubt my transness because I’m SO...
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260) I’m not sure what I am anymore. I never felt...
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259) I'm tired of seeing all these things on...
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258) I’m a guy and I feel intimidated by cis...
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257) I love you, mom and dad. But I’m 18 now and I...
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256) I wish I could take testosterone so I could...
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255) Is it bad that I've just sort of stopped...
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Anonymous asked: I'm biologically female. I love being a girl (minus my boobs), but I really like dressing as a guy and it makes me happy when people refer to me as a male. I still dress like a girl sometimes, but I feel more at home in slacks and a button-up shirt. Is there a term for this, or am I just weird? Lol.
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254) I identified as cis female, but there's times...