June 2012
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Anonymous asked: I started reading through this blog, because as someone who's cisgender I feel a responsibility to learn as much as I can so I can better support my trans* and genderqueer friends. And I want to hug and kiss every confessor on here and you that you're all beautiful and wonderful no matter what ♥
Anonymous asked: Not really a confession, more like a question for y'all: From what I see, a great majority genderqueer people prefer gender neutral and/or male pronouns to refer to them... what is wrong with female pronouns? Is there a reason so few genderqueer people don't mind them?
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412) I'm genderless but I use female pronouns...
May 2012
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411) I come off as a dumb cis ally in real life....
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410) I feel guilty whenever I bind or feel...
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409) I was CAFAB. I identify as genderqueer. My...
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408) I feel like all the other genderqueer people...
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407) Shopping for clothes makes me feel horribly...
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406) Everyone talks about "feeling" male or female...
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405) I actually have PCOS, which is a condition...
Anonymous asked: (For 399) It's normal when you start realizing things about your gender to feel like that (fears of being snowflake too) but the fact you're having that questioning it's for some reason. Whatever way you end identifying,the process itself it's worthy.Just know that are tons of us who still live and feel like girls but also know that there's more to it. Many have found our...
Anonymous asked: That explanation you posted was nice, thank you. :D
Anonymous asked: question: i'm planning to come-out as bigender on my birthday, but I really wouldn't mind getting boy's clothes and a binder as a present. Should I come-out for the sake of the presents or just wait until the next present-oriented occasion?
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404) My brother would rather be a girl and I'd...
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403) Sometimes I feel guilty because I'm only...
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402) I'm genderfluid, but not really out to people...
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401) My girlfriend left me, and while she didn't...
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400) I was born female, but I don't identify as...
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In regards to the last confession:
The message came into my inbox stating that it was a confession/request for assistance.
Just so you know, “girl who is a girl but not completely a girl or maybe a girl plus something else” is totally, 100%, absolutely a thing that exists. You’re not subconsciously being a ~speshul snowflayke~ because you’re questioning your gender. ~*~*~speshul shnowflakz~*~*~ are people...
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399) All my life I assumed I was a "girl" but now...
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398) The fact that my sex will never be...
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397) I happened to stumble upon this site by...
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396) Sometimes I go on Omegle and pretend to be...
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395) I’ve come out to three people in real life....
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394) Nothing makes me feel worse than carefree cis...
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393) Sometimes I hate every instance of the word...
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392) I was assigned female at birth, and I don’t...
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391) My friend’s non-binary and I don’t think they...
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390) Whenever I hear the voice of an apparent cis...
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389) As a girl, I am a lesbian in love with my...
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388) I think it just hit me that I pretty much...
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387) Every day before I go to bed I think about...
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willowenigma asked: Thank you so much for the Therapist Finder link! I live in CT, and haven't had much luck finding anyone with my own research, so hopefully I'll have better luck now :)
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386) I’m feminine and female bodied I know I know...
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385) My parents are going to be out of the country...
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384) Whenever a non-binary person realizes they...
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383) I'm genderqueer, and I've known this for...
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I got 2 pairs of “women’s” lacy thongs a couple of days ago. I wanted to try them and see if I liked wearing them. I feel so sexy in them. Plus, my boyfriend really thinks I’m sexy in them. He likes to feel my cock through them. I’ve been on testosterone for 3 months now, so I’m getting considerably big down there. He calls it my “bulge” when I have...
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381) I usually have a lot of dysphoria about my...
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380) I hate feeling like a guy, when I'm really a...
press5formorespam asked: neutrois[.]me/tag/top-surgery/ is a great resource. =)
willowenigma asked: Not a confession, but I'm genderqueer and I've really been struggling with dysphoria and gender-related problems recently and want to see a therapist about some of it. Is it necessary to find a therapist with experience dealing with gender issues? I'm worried that if I do the focus is going to be too much on transitioning, which unfortunately isn't an option right now. But I...
Anonymous asked: (question) Have you thought about fiddling around with the queue to see if you can't get it to post a little more frequently?
Anonymous asked: I'm considering getting top surgery, I was wondering if anyone who follows this blog (or the blog mod) had any advice, or something. I'm doing research and stuff, but so far every where I look people say I have to go to India? idk.
Anonymous asked: About using 'themselves', I don't think it's appropriating. It isn't exclusive for people who identify as multiple/two-spirit, many people feel that 'themselves' represents them better than 'themself' without being two-spirit and that's okay. Regardless of gender identity, some people feel that who they are is a mix of different personalities (from...
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379) Being the only genderqueer person on my...
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378) I'd use "themselves" rather than...
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Is anyone going to be at BAGLY Pride March this...
If you are, hit me up! I’d love to meet you guys :D
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377) The knowledge that somewhere out there there...