545) I can’t stand the phrase ‘die cis scum’ and its relatives. Even though, as a nonbinary person, I’m not technically part of the group it’s meant for, part of me can’t stop reading it as an accusation and/or rejection and it never fails to leave me feeling intensely dysphoric and hating myself for being ‘not trans enough’. At the same time, I would never ask someone to stop using it, so I wind up just avoiding a lot of binary-identified trans people and trans spaces, and then feeling awful about that, too.